Wednesday, December 12, 2018

Ellie at 16 Months


I want to do every now and then blogs mainly for myself to keep for memories of Ellie as she grows. So much changes over the course of a year. So much changes in even a month! I don't really expect anybody to read this apart from people closest to Ellie. Mainly for my record to keep for her. :) I will print these and put with her baby book. But feel free to read if you don't mind one proud mommy!

Ellie's current vocabulary:

*Ball
*Bow
*Blondie
*Baby
*Bye-Bye
*Mama
*Dada
*Mimi
*G-Daddy
*Dog
*Hello
*Hey
*That
*Water
*Up
*Down
*Uh-oh
*Yeah
*No
*Stop
*Yay
*Please
*Thank you
*Outside
*Light
*Cheese
*Ho Ho Ho (Santa)
*Tree
*Bird
*Done
*Ok
*Hot
*Eye
*Mouth
*Bless You (when we sneeze)
*Rock rock (for rocking chairs and rocking the baby dolls)
*Yuck (her name for poop)

Ellie knows the following animals and their sounds and makes the sounds:

*Dog
*Horse
*Owl
*Bear, Tiger, Lion, Dinosaur...anything that *roars*
*Elephant
*Monkey
*Bird

Body Parts Ellie knows:

*Eyes
*Nose
*Mouth
*Ears
*Tummy
*Hands
*Belly Button

Ellie has been learning at ballet class to walk on tip toes, kick, jump, and twirl. She has accomplished all of these, yet she performs them at home constantly, and observes more at dance class. Ellie has started to enjoy running alongside me in the house or in the yard just short little paces. It is like a game to her. I am so excited to get her into running as she grows! We love having dance parties together.

We have started a little mini mommy lead pre-pre schooling which is all just fun to Ellie. It should be. It should be interesting, exciting, and fun! We learn animals, body parts, colors, shapes, alphabet, and numbers. She has already sang, "ABC" and stops after "C". We read books, sing songs, practice puzzles. We do crafts, science experiments, and we even do exercises and massage to teach her about touch, feel, her body, and how her body is able to move. It is all just a bunch of play, but productive playing.

We LOVE going outdoors for exploring, wagon rides, bubbles, chalk, playing with toys and Blondie. We love our play dates with all our friends. Ellie is involved in Hike it Baby Greenville, Mommy and Me Ballet at Sterling Studio of Performing Arts, Kindermusik of Greenville at Village Arts, and Easley MOPS. (If anybody ever has any questions about these groups feel free to hit me up!! All are so amazing and I couldn't allow Ellie or I to go without any of them!)

Ellie is very sneaky and mischievous like all toddlers, I presume. She is very smart. Yes, I am her mother, but...she is. She is smart in so many ways. Spend time with her and you will be amazed. She is clever. She also knows she is cute and she says hey, or hugs you, or claps her hands like she is proud of herself whenever she gets caught getting into things. It is hard to keep a straight face most of the time. She also hilariously tries to put everything back in order and straighten up in a fast frantic when she hears my feet coming.....then she stands up straight and holds her hands, wears a big grin and says, "Hey!" Sneaky. It is so cute but she still gets her lesson. Gentle love and a pop when necessary. She never even flinches at her poppings. She just smiles and wants to distract me to another item to play. And that is what we do...we proceed and keep loving and playing!

I have been all about Palmetto Basics and how to optimize love and minimize stress in loving and leading your little one. Love and play are so very crucial and important in their strong and happy development. I am so bi into playing with Ellie hands on. People call me crazy for how silly we are or very energetic. I am. But I had this baby to do all I could to give her the best world possible and it is fun getting down on the floor with her at her level and exploring with her....sometimes that means singing the same song or reading the same book, or pushing her around the house in a tray pretending it is a buggy over and over and over again because she wants to, it makes her happy.

Ellie can sing the starts of a few songs. ABC as mentioned previously, Jesus loves me, and some Kindermusik tunes, Riding in the Buggy, Baby Baby My Sweet Baby.

Ellie's favorite play item are baby dolls and stuffed animals. She holds as many as she can at once in her arms, rocks them, kisses them, pats them, sings to them, feeds them, tells the "sh sh sh" to calm them, and tucks them into their crib. She is a nurturer.

She is also stubborn, strong willed, and independent. This will be AWESOME for her adult self. Currently, it makes mommy have to channel in a lot of deep breathing and patience. But I also kind of love it even now because she is pretty great with a fork which she demands to use, she is already almost completely dressing herself, she even tries to change her own diapers which I hope is a sign we can potty train in a few months (fingers crossed), she likes to comb her own hair and put her bows in, and feed herself. Now, she does none of these things perfectly but she is determined to do so and that is really rather awesome. I do love this spirit about her, even when I want to just do it and make it go faster. If we don't let them try when they are curious we are putting such a bock on their independence and neurological pathway development. So take a deep breath and help show, teach, and guide. In saying that, I can also say Ellie is like her daddy and loves to see how things are done and then try and imitate or replicate. For example, she has a tea set with a dessert tray that comes apart. She does not play with the tray as a tray for crumpets, she plays with it as a puzzle that she constantly wants to take apart and put together. She loves when Eric and I sit with her and we guide her in assembling and disassembling. She even knows which piece goes next now, and her coordination for these small pieces are really being honed in as she continues practicing. I love this about her. I do not have this mentality or brain. I am a person who wants it already put together and hates taking time to read directions to figure it out.

Ellie is in love with jewelry, make-up, purses, shoes, accessories, and animals. These are a few of her favorite things.

When we go places, people think Ellie is quiet and reserved. She is a very observant child who watches and examines everything before partaking of it. Give her about 20 minutes and you will see a wild one pop loose. But she is always listening, watching, and preparing to mimic what she observes. Another reason to really be aware of our surroundings, music, words, actions, and reactions.

Ellie is a HAM!! She LOVES to make us and friends laugh and to be the center of attention. She loves to put on a show and just be so stinkin' funny!! When she sees you laugh, she laughs all the harder.

She loves snuggles, kisses, hugs, and playing games of tickle attack, chase, and games where we pretend we are going to "get her!" She still loves peek-a-boo and hiding.

The never ending comment we get about Ellie is how tanned she is. She is not tanned, lol, just has a very beautiful skin tone. She got that from Daddy. This mama lathers that baby up in sunscreen and long sleeved swimmers in summer. We appreciate the notice people take in how pretty Ellie is. She is very beautiful. She is also very smart, funny, and kind!

I love her smile and her dimples. I love her sweet eyes. I love her hair and how soft and blonde it is. I love the way Ellie takes off in excitement with her arms and hands thrown backwards and her face and chest bent forward like a little airplane. I love how she holds her hands behind her back when she is looking things over or walking around.

She currently still has 10 teeth (this includes top molars).

Every day with Ellie is fleeting faster and faster away. She is truly a very sweet and easy tempered, loving, helpful, and thoughtful little baby. She blows my mind with the amount of love and care she already gives. She changes every day and learns something new every day, for real! I love being able to keep a record here for myself.






Sunday, December 2, 2018

Teddy Bear Luncheon


I wanted to share this with all the mamas and daddies out there who are not currently aware of this spectacular event.

Bon Secours St. Francis Health System in Greenville, SC hosts a Teddy Bear Luncheon every year to benefit the medical needs of others. This year, the proceeds are going towards the Adolescent and Young Adult Inpatient Cancer Center. Because of the generosity also provided by the Hyatt Regency of Greenville, 100% of the proceeds benefit this facility for cancer patients. When I learned that, my heart was swollen with gratitude for this community and their compassionate hearts.

The tickets for adults were $15. Children ages 3-12 were $10. We were encouraged to bring a brand new teddy bear or stuffed animal to be donated as well. For $30 and the donation of a precious lovie for a child to hold, Eric, Ellie and I were able to enjoy a delicious sit down meal, entertainment provided by Wade Hampton High School Drama Team (wonderful job), Photo opps with classic Christmas characters, cookie decorating, and a photo with Santa Claus. It was well beyond worth it. Even more so considering that our money is going to help cancer patients. I am so thankful for this community who is not using health care abusively to make money, but to help, truly, help, love, and serve, to do no harm, to those in need. Amen! As a former medical professional (before taking on my best role yet as mommy)...a large majority of my passions lie in healthcare, surgery, and touching lives who have lost hope. This event was SO much more than seeing Santa....again....it was all about the joy of helping others and exposing Ellie to that service and nature.

I couldn't recommend this event any higher to all upstate residents to attend. I am thankful my friend, Julie, shared with me so that we could be part of it! Ellie, 16 months, enjoyed every single aspect. She laughed and smiled and watched intently at the drama team, she smacked down on green beans, mac and cheese, and chicken, she danced, and enjoyed all the stuffed animals surrounding her. We loved seeing her joy, as well. Ellie was also enamored with the Festival of Trees! So beautiful. Check them out, y'all!

Y'all...add this to the Christmas docket for your families next year!









Beets!


I love adding new healthy and color rich foods into my diet. I am in love with how food is medicine for your body!

A while back, on the hiking trail, a sweet friend of mine and I were chatting about food and things the babes eat. I explained to my friend Shelly that I had never eaten beets before, yet I had considered having Ellie try them once and just bought her canned beets. Ellie detested them and then I was totally turned off. Eric had mentioned to me that he too, hated beets. So, after telling this to Shelly, she was like oh no! Don't eat canned beets! She told me to get some fresh beets and roast them and told me I could even do them up with other veggies.

So this week, to motivate me further to add beets into my diet and to get me to try them, I did a quick search on the benefits of beets. Y'all. These are sooooo insanely good for you. So, I peeled them, quartered them, and cooked them in a little grass fed organic butter and seasoned with a little Mrs. Dash original. I made them alongside onions and carrots. Note: Even the leaves are good for you. I am going to add mine to a smoothie next time.

Verdict: YUM! So so so so very good!!! I loved them. They actually are not too very different from potatoes but offer so many more healthy benefits! I want to eat them very frequently, now.

Be warned....and thankfully...Shelly warned me...poop and pee will turn red....but its worth it hahahaha! So don't be scared.

Even Ellie ate a couple. She still preferred the carrots over them. She has the same tastes as her daddy.

So go try beets, y'all! Fresh beets!! Not the canned!

Cypress Gardens

  For a few years I have wanted to go with Eric to the Cypress Gardens in Moncks Corner to do a self guided boat ride. This place is known f...